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A deeper Look into Shadow Work


“How can I be substantial if I do not cast a shadow? I must have a dark side also if I am to be whole.” Carl Jung


Shadow work is a transformative process that brings the unconscious parts of our psyche to light. It involves recognizing, acknowledging, and integrating these hidden aspects into our whole self. By doing so, we become more self-aware and can modify self-sabotaging behaviours. Additionally, shadow work can improve personal relationships through better understanding and communication.

The term "shadow self" refers to those repressed or ignored parts of our identity that we’ve come to reject. Swiss psychologist Carl Jung first developed this concept, emphasising that our shadows contain both "light" and "dark" sides. While we might initially fear these aspects as entirely negative, accessing their lighter sides can enhance creativity and personal growth. In essence, shadow work helps us become more complete beings by integrating the bad and the good within us.

Is there a side of you that you suppress during certain social situations? Or maybe one you don't even know you hide? That’s your shadow. Shadow work involves uncovering these hidden parts of your psyche to understand yourself better, heal old wounds, and improve relationships. In other words, it's the work you do on the darker side of yourself that you don’t want or cannot see.

What is shadow work?

Shadow work and the idea of a shadow self often carry negative connotations. Some might think of Peter Pan’s mischievous shadow, while others envision a haunting presence. However, shadow work is not as intimidating as it seems. It offers significant insights into how we identify and regulate our emotions and perceive ourselves and the world around us.

"Shadow work" and the "shadow self" are concepts from Carl Jung, the Swiss founder of analytical psychology. We all have parts of ourselves that we’ve repressed or ignored, forming our shadow self. These hidden aspects are neither inherently good nor bad; they are simply parts of who we are.

Though we may reject these aspects, they remain in our unconscious mind. It's up to us to explore and uncover these repressed parts. Through shadow work, we can accept these hidden aspects and integrate them into our overall identity, striving to become whole.

"We often refer to shadow work as working on our blind spots," notes Duke. The shadow self is often created in childhood when we're told that certain traits are bad or unlovable. For example, a talkative child might repress their lively nature to feel accepted. Over time, these repressed traits reside in our shadow, waiting to resurface or be triggered by external stimuli.

"What we resist persists," states Duke. Traits in our shadow self can trigger us in our relationships. For instance, if you value generosity but repress feelings of selfishness, encountering someone who prioritises themselves might trigger strong emotional reactions. This person might simply have boundaries, but if you haven’t integrated your own selfish tendencies, conflicts arise.

At its core, shadow work is about discovering what triggers you and identifying the underlying causes. It involves self-acceptance and coming to terms with parts of your identity that carry unnecessary shame or guilt. "It’s good to see the beauty in all parts of yourself," says Duke. The shadow self could unlock new and exciting aspects of your personality that you’ve been avoiding.

Carl Gustav Jung, a Swiss psychiatrist, pioneered the concept of the shadow in his exploration of the unconscious mind. He argued that acknowledging and integrating our shadow is crucial for achieving wholeness. By confronting and understanding our shadow, we can attain a deeper self-understanding, leading to individuation—the process of becoming aware of oneself as a unique individual by integrating the conscious and unconscious parts of the psyche.

Start by noticing how your shadow affects you in daily interactions. For instance, if browsing social media triggers negative feelings, instead of ignoring them, explore what you may be projecting. Ask yourself deep questions and respond by writing a letter to yourself. Address uncomfortable feelings like anger, jealousy, or fear, offering them acknowledgment and a voice.

Embrace Your Power

Liz Wilde

26/07/2024



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